I'm thankful for our wonderful perfect, for us, family. And, our extended family. We have so much love for one another even if we don't always say it in so many words.
I'm thankful for a husband who works 60 hours a week to provide for us. Even though he drives me completely insane lol.
I'm thankful for my children who have brought childlike wonder, joy, and love without boundaries to my life.
I'm thankful for my Mom. Without my Mom I would literally go insane. Thanks for being my lifesaver and my in a pinch babysitter. Thanks for letting us mooch dinner once a week or so. Thanks for teaching me how to sew and for listening to my random boring phone calls when I just need to talk to another adult. How you raised 5 wild kids to responsible adults without killing us, I'll never know. You are a great example of a strong woman who can do it all =) Your my hero and I love you <3
Friday, November 18, 2011
what kind of mother am I?
So I was in the hot seat in my mother's facebook group the other day and one question was what kind of mother am I? There are so many ways to answer this. My parenting style is pretty laid back. The kids can do pretty much whatever they want as long as they aren't putting themselves or others i danger (I'm not talking in any danger like from jumping off the couch or spinning wildly, but danger like plugging something into the outlet, hitting, running with scissors etc.). I like to be in charge. It drives me nuts when dh punishes the kids, tells them they can't do something, or that they can do something that isn't the way I do it. I am constantly reminding myself that different isn't wrong... even though I think it is lol. We read quite a bit, I like to play imagination games and play with the kids without using toys. I like letting them play with art stuff and help me create things (for example Kellen is helping me sew his quilt by pushing down the peddle on the sewing machine as I sew). I hate the television. Kids will watch tv all day if you let them and dh loves it when they are sitting there as little tv zombies... I'd rather have them running around like wild horses.
I'm pretty crunchy when it comes to toys, food, and raising babies. We cloth diaper. Why? It saves money $20 for a box of sposies or $20 for a diaper. You spend maybe $300 on cloth diapering total for ALL of your children combined (unless you get addicted and like to buy lots of cute diapers), and you spend around $1000 a year or about $3000 for each child to be in sposies so 12,000 for 4 kids... CRAZY. Why else? That $3000 is approximately 10,000 diapers per child that will be put in the ground and stay there for 200 years or more. So My family of 3 would have used around 30,000 diapers... that's probably more than enough to fill an entire 4 bedroom house. I like the planet earth and I want my kids to have a healthy planet. Cloth diapering adds only 2 loads of laundry a week to my list (this makes a negligible difference in our electric bill, so small that I can't even tell). Obviously, less diapers would mean washing more frequently. We use 100% planet earth safe laundry detergent, with no softeners and no dryer sheets (I made my own dryer balls from 100% wool yarn). Guess what, my clothes are soft and smell fantastic. It also cuts way down on our garbage. Which means less money spent on our garbage bags (our town you pay by the bag) and less plastic used and thrown in the landfill. It drives me crazy when people say it's gross or dirty... you DON'T ever touch poop... once in a while, sure, you get a blowout or some poop on you but no more that with sposies. I use pockets and since I ebf I don't need to rinse them or anything. Just throw them in the washer... This is starting to sound like a rant. Sorry! I've had some negative comments on my parenting recently and I'm a little bitter about it.
I breastfeed. Seriously, you can't improve on mother nature. And, BONUS, it's FREE. Some people have a heard time with it but I am lucky to have never had more than a plugged duct. I can't see doing it any other way. (Kellen did have to have formula, which, looking back is probably due to having a tongue tie that I'm only just realizing he has. We had a really hard time with it =/ ). I think anyone who is breastfeeding for the first time should join some sort of support group in case they too have a hard time. I am in a facebook group for breastfeeding moms with babies born in August 2011. While I didn't really need to join for myself, I did to help give other's support. I would also tell any mom to join a group on facebook or what to expect when your expecting just to get support from other people going through the same things as you. It's great to get advice and just to know that what your doing is normal and wonderful. Trust your instincts always. n Check out kellymom.com too!!
We eat clean, with the exception of my daily can of mt. dew. Damn, I need to kick that habit!!! This means rarely eating processed foods. Luckily, when I do crave something like pizza the local deli is basically all clean foods as the owner makes his own pizza dough etc.
I baby wear a lot. My babies don't lay on their backs in a bouncy seat most of the day. It does not spoil your baby to know that they are loved and important. Here is a fantastic example of baby wearing and mama bear instincts: http://fiercemamas.blogspot.com/2009/10/saving-my-baby.html
I don't believe in cry it out, at all (obviously, if the older kids are crying or upset because they have to go to bed that's different then just a baby not being able to fall asleep and wanting mom etc.). It does not spoil your baby to know that they are loved and important.
We co-sleep. http://www.askdrsears.com/topics/sleep-problems/co-sleeping-yes-no-sometimes Very interesting article and completely how I feel. http://www.askdrsears.com/news/latest-news/dr-sears-addresses-recent-co-sleeping-concerns
Regardless of what anyone thinks, and yes, I am a bit pissed off right now. I'm raising my children the way I think it should be done. Yup, they can be big pains sometimes, but so can everyone. They are spoiled; with love. Yes, they have more than some people but they get told no; quite a bit since they usually don't listen the first time lol.
I'm pretty crunchy when it comes to toys, food, and raising babies. We cloth diaper. Why? It saves money $20 for a box of sposies or $20 for a diaper. You spend maybe $300 on cloth diapering total for ALL of your children combined (unless you get addicted and like to buy lots of cute diapers), and you spend around $1000 a year or about $3000 for each child to be in sposies so 12,000 for 4 kids... CRAZY. Why else? That $3000 is approximately 10,000 diapers per child that will be put in the ground and stay there for 200 years or more. So My family of 3 would have used around 30,000 diapers... that's probably more than enough to fill an entire 4 bedroom house. I like the planet earth and I want my kids to have a healthy planet. Cloth diapering adds only 2 loads of laundry a week to my list (this makes a negligible difference in our electric bill, so small that I can't even tell). Obviously, less diapers would mean washing more frequently. We use 100% planet earth safe laundry detergent, with no softeners and no dryer sheets (I made my own dryer balls from 100% wool yarn). Guess what, my clothes are soft and smell fantastic. It also cuts way down on our garbage. Which means less money spent on our garbage bags (our town you pay by the bag) and less plastic used and thrown in the landfill. It drives me crazy when people say it's gross or dirty... you DON'T ever touch poop... once in a while, sure, you get a blowout or some poop on you but no more that with sposies. I use pockets and since I ebf I don't need to rinse them or anything. Just throw them in the washer... This is starting to sound like a rant. Sorry! I've had some negative comments on my parenting recently and I'm a little bitter about it.
I breastfeed. Seriously, you can't improve on mother nature. And, BONUS, it's FREE. Some people have a heard time with it but I am lucky to have never had more than a plugged duct. I can't see doing it any other way. (Kellen did have to have formula, which, looking back is probably due to having a tongue tie that I'm only just realizing he has. We had a really hard time with it =/ ). I think anyone who is breastfeeding for the first time should join some sort of support group in case they too have a hard time. I am in a facebook group for breastfeeding moms with babies born in August 2011. While I didn't really need to join for myself, I did to help give other's support. I would also tell any mom to join a group on facebook or what to expect when your expecting just to get support from other people going through the same things as you. It's great to get advice and just to know that what your doing is normal and wonderful. Trust your instincts always. n Check out kellymom.com too!!
We eat clean, with the exception of my daily can of mt. dew. Damn, I need to kick that habit!!! This means rarely eating processed foods. Luckily, when I do crave something like pizza the local deli is basically all clean foods as the owner makes his own pizza dough etc.
I baby wear a lot. My babies don't lay on their backs in a bouncy seat most of the day. It does not spoil your baby to know that they are loved and important. Here is a fantastic example of baby wearing and mama bear instincts: http://fiercemamas.blogspot.com/2009/10/saving-my-baby.html
I don't believe in cry it out, at all (obviously, if the older kids are crying or upset because they have to go to bed that's different then just a baby not being able to fall asleep and wanting mom etc.). It does not spoil your baby to know that they are loved and important.
We co-sleep. http://www.askdrsears.com/topics/sleep-problems/co-sleeping-yes-no-sometimes Very interesting article and completely how I feel. http://www.askdrsears.com/news/latest-news/dr-sears-addresses-recent-co-sleeping-concerns
Regardless of what anyone thinks, and yes, I am a bit pissed off right now. I'm raising my children the way I think it should be done. Yup, they can be big pains sometimes, but so can everyone. They are spoiled; with love. Yes, they have more than some people but they get told no; quite a bit since they usually don't listen the first time lol.
Sunday, November 6, 2011
CHILI
I made this chili yesterday and it was so good that I think I'm making it again tomorrow =)
Chili
1lb ground italian sausage
1lb ground turkey (or ground beef)
1 medium onion chopped
3 stalks celery chopped
3 tbs garlic minced
3 (14.5 ounce) cans diced tomatoes with green peppers and onions
2 (16 ounce) cans black beans, rinsed and drained
2 (16 ounce) cans kidney beans (one red, one white), rinsed and drained
1 (14.5 ounce) can beef broth
1 (12 ounce) can tomato paste (or 2 6oz cans)
3 tablespoons brown sugar
2 tablespoons chili powder (or 3 for more heat)
2 tablespoon Worcestershire sauce
1/2 teaspoon crushed red pepper flakes
shredded mild cheddar cheese
cook meats until browned, drain
cook meats, onion, celery and garlic for 5 minutes in pot
add all other ingredient except cheese, cook for 20 minutes on simmer
serve with cheese on top
Chili
1lb ground italian sausage
1lb ground turkey (or ground beef)
1 medium onion chopped
3 stalks celery chopped
3 tbs garlic minced
3 (14.5 ounce) cans diced tomatoes with green peppers and onions
2 (16 ounce) cans black beans, rinsed and drained
2 (16 ounce) cans kidney beans (one red, one white), rinsed and drained
1 (14.5 ounce) can beef broth
1 (12 ounce) can tomato paste (or 2 6oz cans)
3 tablespoons brown sugar
2 tablespoons chili powder (or 3 for more heat)
2 tablespoon Worcestershire sauce
1/2 teaspoon crushed red pepper flakes
shredded mild cheddar cheese
cook meats until browned, drain
cook meats, onion, celery and garlic for 5 minutes in pot
add all other ingredient except cheese, cook for 20 minutes on simmer
serve with cheese on top
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